The importance of Emotional Intelligence for our young people.


Emotional intelligence (EQ) is defined as the way to perceive and interpret emotions. Being able to name and regulate emotions to enhance your personal growth intellectually and emotional. Not raising your EQ will not only effect your mental health but your physical health too. Relationships and prosperity will also be effected by the level of your EQ.

EQ is simply the other side of IQ, IQ being about the brain and EQ being about the emotions.


The benefits of increasing your EQ are not only important in life but help support you in the challenges you face each day, it sets a strong foundation for dealing with the current culture that we live in that is generally more fluid. It helps with the following.


*Enables you to make better decisions

*Increases ability to communicate well, through a calmer and clearer mind

*Able to cope better with daily struggles of life

*Neutralise conflicts (which we all know language and cultural differences often bring.)

*Your empathy is increased and therefore making new friends is made easier.


There are generally four key skills around Emotional intelligence to be aware of when you are looking at increasing your EQ.


Self awareness - This is where you are able to name and recognise your emotions including the effect that they have on you in your physical being.


Self management - This is being able to control those emotions so that they don’t take control of your actions. Those moments where you are not able to recognise the emotion and so it takes hold of your being. Good self management is not holding back emotions but recognising them.


Social awareness - Being able to understand what people around you are feeling as well as their concerns and needs is a huge benefit to growing relationships but is also where you are able to read situations and manage those moments in a positive way, even when they might not be that pleasant.


Relationship management - In many ways once you have the above this fourth skills falls into place on its own. Having the ability to build and maintain strong relationships is key to judging situations and the actions you take. You are able to at this stage inspire others and generally be a great team player.


I am sure you will agree our EQ is pretty important and the great news is we can raise our EQ with great ease.


Firstly, recognising your negative emotions. Recognise, accept and then release is my motto. It is a simple practice, however needs you to own the emotion, sometimes terrifying to start with but actually with very little practice becomes the best tool you will ever use. Now there are many techniques on how to do this. For now let me just suggest that you look at what caused the negative emotion. We are often afraid to ta